 A Prayer for Cancer,
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"...and a child
shall lead them"
Isaiah 11:6
What a husband and wife
are taught by their daughter.
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Blessings
and Gratitude
Amidst Our Trials
My Dearest Friends,
 As
we approach the year 2012, some fall prey to
the many rumors and frightening doctrines that
create fear and anxiety. Yes, we do live in
changing times, those that have been prophesied
as troubled times, and some say perhaps even
the end of times. My belief is that while life is changing, it will not end.
God will not allow for the total destruction of the world he so loves, and
created. But change it must, and for our own good.
Life is hurting many with the current shift in our economy and change in our moral standards. And like the growing pains a child might feel before reaching puberty, we too, must go through the pain and agony of growth to evolve to greater heights and we can only do that through every trial and challenge brought before us to face. Life, offers opportunities meant to increase spiritual growth. And what challenges us, no matter how great, or small, can only bring us to greater understanding that will strengthen us and help us to overcome weaknesses. The effects generated from all experiences are exhibited in our individual lives, in our communities and in our nations.Through pain and suffering we will learn where to make every appropriate change.
My love and
prayers are with you as you face your life trials, heartaches and grief. Suffer
them, we must; endure them, we must; and triumphant over them, we must. We
can do this if we walk in the knowledge taught us by Christ.
During his
lifetime, and even now, Jesus’ kindness is often mistaken as weakness. While
he was kind and humble, he was neither a weak or fearful man. Jesus was a man
of gentle strength. Brought to task, he got the job done. He was a man balanced
in both the things of the physical and spiritual. He was a man of utmost strength.
It stands to reason that if we are to follow after him, we must stand-up for what we believe in and not shrink from what is right. We can only do good if we do something about our good intentions. This is not the time to become fearful of life or of living, but it is the time to stand strong in your faith and show strength through your beliefs.
When I am
asked what I think about the year 2012 and where I plan to be on December 21st,
my mind immediately takes me to what will be the 20 year anniversary of the
publishing of "Embraced By The Light," and I hope to be celebrating
it! IF you would like to join with me, let’s make it a date!
With
all my love,
Betty
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 A
mother is prompted to pray for
her son seven days in a row.
A daughter turns the loss of her mother into gratitude for the years spent together.
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Losing a Child
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from the audio book..
 … Slowly and deliberately she spoke between sobs. “You see, Betty,” she said, “I saw Jesus, too, like you said you did in your book. When I had my last surgery, I died like you did. Jesus came and met me. He hugged me, too.”
Her body began to tremble as she cried, and I wanted so badly to pull her into my arms. Her mother was racked in grief from listening to her brave little girl, but we both knew Holly wasn’t finished with what she had come to tell me, so we didn’t move or interrupt her.
“He . . .” she began again, stuttering ever so slightly, “he, well, he told me that it was time for me to come home now.” Her throat tightened and a high-pitched sound came from her voice as she continued speaking. “I want to go home where he is, but it makes my mommy and daddy sad. You see, I’m the only girl, but I have two brothers. When I’m gone, my mommy and daddy will have no daughter at home.”
. . . I thought of the spirits I had seen preparing to come to earth and was reminded that all of their deaths were planned . . . as are all of ours . . . before we came. I knew some came knowing that they would be here for a short time. They were spirits who did not need long mortal lives to develop further spiritually but who chose to help the growth of the spirits of those they touched during their brief time on earth. I knew that the pain that their deaths left behind would be washed away when we are all reunited as spirits and that the suffering of those who remained longer was all part of the spiritual development that brings all of us here. We are here for the growth of the spirit, and as I looked into Holly’s eyes, I felt both her family’s pain and the power of her love, of the loving sacrifice of her purpose here on earth. Seeing the pure beauty of this child’s soul touched my heart and filled me with love.
… Holly’s lips began to quiver again, and her eyes filled with tears as she stepped to my side to whisper in my left ear. “I talked to Jesus, Betty. He told me to tell you not to quit what you are doing!” Again her voice tightened to a squeak, and she repeated herself. “Don’t ever quit, Betty!”
I couldn’t restrain myself any longer. I reached and drew Holly into my arms
and held her there. Tears and sobs could be heard from the three of us, but we
were in our own world for now and felt unashamed.
“Holly, when you go back home to Jesus, will you give him a message for me,” I asked. I could hardly speak, my voice was so filled with emotion. “Tell him that I love him and I won’t quit, but I miss him so much!”
—The Awakening
Heart,
pages 135-139
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Readers Ask Betty
How
can I go on after my loss?
When
we lose a loved one, we cannot help
but ask, “Why?” Death
seems so final. In addition to grief,
we often feel anger and may even
blame ourselves. Remembering our
eternal nature will help us draw
strength as we understand that our
loved one is now free of the physical
pains of this world. "My new body
was weightless and extremely mobile,
and I was fascinated by my new state
of being. Although I had felt pain
from the surgery only moments before,
I now felt no discomfort at all.
I was whole in every way—perfect.
 And I thought, This is who I really
am . . . The fact of a pre-earth
life crystallized in my mind, and
I saw that death was actually a 'rebirth'
into a greater life of understanding
and knowledge that stretched forward
and backward through time." — Embraced
By The Light, pp. 31-32
Even with an understanding that death
is an opportunity for us to grow spiritually,
the emotions and pain we feel often
would halt us in our ability to carry
on. “After a loved one dies,
grief may overwhelm us no matter how
prepared we think we are; a relationship
once taken for granted is suddenly
stripped away from us, And an awesome
void enters into our lives. We are
left with sorrow, uncertainty, and
a sense of helplessness. Often, vulnerability
replaces confidence, and simple decisions
become unfathomable matters of confusion.” –The
Ripple Effect, p. 222-223
One of the most loving gifts we can
give to another is to pray for them,
we can pray for our departed loved
ones and find healing ourselves. “Pray
for one another that ye may be healed…” (James
5:16)
"Letting
go of loved ones when they pass into the next life is natural and right. In
letting go and praying for their continued growth, we share our love for them
and open ourselves up to the power we need to move on. We need not insist that
they return to comfort or calm us. God is able to do that as his spirit works
among us, guiding us to the full and rich lives he intends for each of us." –The
Ripple Effect, p. 231
Dearest
Betty, If God has all power, then
why does Satan have power over our
spirit? Why do we have to battle
evil?
 Ultimately, the devil—or
Satan—will not have power over
our spirits. His eventual fate is eternal
banishment. God does have absolute
power, and there is no room for Satan
in the Kingdom of God. In this sense
we might regard the master of evil
as an illusion, because he is already
defeated by the power of Christ.
But
why does evil exist at all? The answer
is that our spirits grow faster and
stronger through adversity. The pain
of experiencing wrong doing and loss
burns into our souls and encodes itself
into our cells and our energy. The
lessons we learn from our troubles
become part of our very essence. Negative
experiences also grant us the power
of empathy, to see others as we see
ourselves, to comprehend joys and sorrows
and all the human impulses. As our
eyes are opened and we grow in empathy,
our ability to love unconditionally
increases. To develop our highest potential,
to become like God, we need to gain
that love which only opposition allows
us to gain. Without an opposing energy,
our power to love would never be strengthened
sufficiently to allow us to progress
in the eternities. –The
Ripple Effect, pp 81-82
The
adversary uses our fears, the opposite
of love, to draw us away from God’s
light and love. I talk about this
in depth in the chapter “The
Problem of Evil” in my book The
Ripple Effect. We can discern
his influence by looking prayerfully
at the fruit that grows from his sway.
Continuing on page 82:
Satan
can disguise himself as an angel of
light, appearing to be the answer when
in fact he is the problem. Fortunately,
a false spirit posing as an angel of
light casts a long, dark shadow. That
is the nature of evil. It is a tree
that bears bitter fruit that can always
be detected over time...
It is important to recognize that Satan,
the Deceiver, masterfully uses our
own fears to hold us captive. Fear
is the opposite of love. It warps and
destroys love’s power to heal
and to expand us. Some of us in this
life and in the world to come are afraid
to go to the Light and accept Christ’s
love. And Christ will not force us;
rather, he gently and ever so patiently
guides us along. During my near-death
experience, my transformation by his
healing love began in the darkness
before I ever saw him. This love grew
in me until my fears departed and I
believed I was accepted of him. Then
I couldn’t be held from him and
went to his light. While in darkness,
each of us has the right to feel God’s
love. But we must accept it. Light
and darkness cannot occupy the same
space; it is an impossibility…
 We
hold the keys that lead in and out
of Satan’s realm. The Heavenly
Father has given each of us all that
we need to withstand and overcome adversity,
and he will not give us more than we
can bear. “God is faithful, who
will not suffer you to be tempted above
that ye are able; but will with the
temptation also make a way to escape,
that ye may be able to bear it.” (1Corinthians
10:13)
A great enemy is often
our own thoughts and words. Jesus taught
that it is what comes from our own
being that “defiles” us. Continuing
this chapter again on page 85:
To
dwell upon a thought is to give it
energy. To act upon a thought is to
give it life. The Lord discusses this
principle in Mark 7:15. “There
is nothing from without a man, that
entering into him can defile him; but
the things which come out of him, those
are they that defile the man.” When
we give something place within our
nature, it manifests itself physically
and spiritually. Giving place to negative
thoughts by repeating them, pondering
them, gnawing on them, gives them energy
and thus the power to transform...
God
does have absolute power and allows
evil for our benefit so that we can
have greater joy as we learn to choose
the right in all that we do; and we
do live in troubled and trying times.
Evil seems to be reaching new depths
and broader acceptance in the lives
of many. We must remember that at the
same time, truth is expanding also,
blessing us with new opportunity as
we face our challenges. From page
87:
I
know the endless love of God, and
I know that if there is a way to
reach any soul, he will find it and
use it—for
eternity if need be. Every spirit has
the seed of God in it, a seed that
only he knows the greatness of, and
we cannot judge.
Evil
exists for a divine purpose. Because
of it we become aware of our weaknesses. As we gain control of appetites and
desires, we begin to see how the
influence of evil has strengthened
us. The force of opposition can actually
propel us forward. When we see it
for what it is , we become less susceptible
to its negative influence, more able
to let our spirits take command of
our bodies. We become free from ignorance
and fear and therefore more wise
in choosing our course down the river
of life. Moreover, we are awakened
to the multifaceted nature of God’s
love for his children...
Know that
we can and will see our world cleansed
of all evil. Our earth will be blanketed
with a greater glory, even the glory
and love of God. But we must each believe
and act in that faith. “For God
so loved the world, that he gave his
only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth
in him should not perish but have everlasting
life.” (John 3:16)
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